The Swingers Board - View Single Post - He wants to swing...I don't want to...and it's killing me!!!

ohash01 · 02-16-2007, 04:46 PM

Definately don't go flying into this just because you want to be able to say "see? I hated it!". That could seriously damage your relationship.

Sit down and talk to him. I promise it doesn't have anything to do with you not satisfying him enough. Swinging is another aspect of your relationship TOGETHER. He isn't going to go and find someone else just for him. He brought it up because he wants to be honest and open and tell you what he's been feeling and thinking.

You should do the same. Sit down. Tell him exactly WHY this is so disturbing to you. Ask him what his previous experiences were like...maybe him giving you some insider info will help. Please talk to him. I think you'll feel better that you did.

02-16-2007, 04:46 PM	#7 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: Uhhhh....Yaaaa.....I'm back, need help/advice Definately don't go flying into this just because you want to be able to say "see? I hated it!". That could seriously damage your relationship. Sit down and talk to him. I promise it doesn't have anything to do with you not satisfying him enough. Swinging is another aspect of your relationship TOGETHER. He isn't going to go and find someone else just for him. He brought it up because he wants to be honest and open and tell you what he's been feeling and thinking. You should do the same. Sit down. Tell him exactly WHY this is so disturbing to you. Ask him what his previous experiences were like...maybe him giving you some insider info will help. Please talk to him. I think you'll feel better that you did.