Being a mom of 3 took all my time and energy, and I had no time to focus on myself. I was lucky if I had time for a bubblebath once a month. Seriously!
Now that they're teens, I can focus on myself. Having a sexually open husband (not the kids father, who was a prude) has made a tremendous difference in how I feel about myself. He's allowed me to let the "wild child" out, and I am having a blast!
Sexually speaking, my husband of 8 years and I have had the greatest sex in my life. Now that we're into swinging, it is hot every day. The level of communication we have and open discussions about fantasies has turned a good sex life into incredible.
Enjoy your peak! Your mate definately will too.
Mrs. D