[NaughtyKitten]

Thank you MRS! It will be a few months till he is gone so it will take awhile till it is really over. He is allowed to play until he moves. The new GF knows about me and his swinging lifestyle and is not putting restrictions on him now. She is letting him say goodbye to it in his own way. I think that is very open-minded and generous of her. He and I had a long talk the other night about the feelings I have developed for him and just how deep they go. He has feelings too but never allowed it to get as deep as mine did. He did ackowledge that if I was single when we met he would have wanted more with me. He feels like he is cheating himself if he got exclusive with us. He wants a relationship with one lady that he doesn't have to share, only if they both want to at some point. He wants marriage and children and all that. He has never been married before. I can understand but it still hurts.

I am open to a new poly relationship. It would be nice if we could find a female that my husband and I could both be involved with but I'm open to another male friend as well. I don't think a poly relationship with a couple would work for us based on our swinging experience so far. It's hard to have 4 way compatibility and we have met very few couples that we meshed with. We'll see as time goes on what happens.

Thank you for your support and I am sorry to hear about the problems in your relationships. I'm glad you and your husband are still strong. That's important!

*hugs*