[NaughtyKitten]

Hi everyone! I have not posted on this board in over a year. We've had some great experiences since then but one thing that happened was far and above everything else. We formed a friendship with a single male partner of mine. It grew into a regular thing. We would hang out as friends, go to movies, he knows our kids etc. He was allowed certain priveledges that my other swing partners were not. I saw him anywhere from 1-4 times a month for a year and a half now. He never wanted a poly relationship but we functioned very much like that. We have both acknowledged feelings for each other and my husband is aware and approving of it. He has even allowed us to see each other alone at times, sometimes even overnight. It was the most satisfying relationship between the three of us but it is ending. He has started a relationship with a girl that lives out of state and will be moving early June. My heart is breaking.

I never thought I wanted a poly relationship but I really liked having another in my life. It was good for all of us. I think I would like to eventually have another poly partner, but hopefully one that is more invested and wanting that kind of relationship.

I just wanted to share my story with you all and maybe ask if you can share how you found your poly partners? I would not even begin to know how to search for something we found quite by accident.

Thank you all!