[singleagain]

kush2112 wrote "For us it would ruin the whole thing and we would give up on clubs 100%. What a turn-off it would be to have people like that come to clubs."

I am a single male. The new "friend" I have accompanies me to a couple of different clubs on occasion and we enjoy ourselves immensly. Prior to meeting her my trips to clubs were limited to certain nights and not much activity as I would be one of many average single males available to the few couples there. Let me hasten to add that I have been a swinger for almost 30 years and prior to my wife's demise I personally had never experienced the kind of rejection I get as a single guy, even by some of the same people we used to swing with. As soon as I showed up with a woman on my arm I was suddenly accepted again. All the clubs I attend have a "no prostitution" policy so I am very discrete and do not tell them that my new "friend" recevies several things of value for her time with me at the club. First, she gets to swing which she enjoys very much. Second she get the protection of a male escorting her so she doesn't worry about getting hit on by the dreaded "single guy". And third, she earns a sizable amount of money with which she supports herself and her infant daughter. There are several advantages for me as well. I'll leave all of them to your imaganation as I can see the flames coming now, anyway. For me, having a GFE prostitute on my arm when I show up at a club allows me to continue to live the lifestyle with a person I enjoy being with. For her, she earns a living while she gets all the recreational sex she wants. By the way, she never gets paid from anyone but me and she never approaches others at the clubs asking for money for sex.

With all that said, I think that allowing prostitution in a swingers club is generally a bad idea. With the exception of Nevada it would be illegal. That means police raids, arrests and public exposure for all included. Remember, we are in the minority. Most people think we are obssesive perverts.