 Update!!!
Hey, we weren't sure were to post this, but since we are new to it I just thought that I would post it here.
Alright, everything is going GRRREAT!!! It kinda like having a new toy!!! Can't wait to play again..lol
Well for the past 2 weeks, everything has just fell into place. Its weird, because we are so much alike. We are all very open and we all communicate, which I think makes things that much better.
Lets start with me and T. We both have a very strong sex drive and we are very much attracted to each other, both sexually and I guess you caould say friendshipwise... we both enjoy our time together, and we talk very well, almost better than the wife and I. We have a strong connection between us.
The wife and G, are pretty much alike as well, that have s good connection between them, and pretty much see eye to eye in the bedroom.
We talk to them on a daily bases and we are planning a long weekend away, this weekend. Both of us (couples) have become closer with our own spouses, and we have spent good quaility time with each other. I could be wrong, but I believe that this is what the "lifestyle" is all about. Too bring esch other closer.
We have found out that, we can have fun and still have each other, in and out of the bedroom... which we have also learned alot about that as well. Some of the things that my wife may not enjoy with me (I am very Blessed down there) she can enjoy now, without the pain, and without being wore out. The same is true with me, I have found someone who is just as crazy as I am, and since we have the same drive, we can go 5-6 times longer than we could with our own spouses, there for we can get the most enjoyment out of it, before return to our spouses.
Neither couple has had one complaint, granted we are still in the learning phase, and that we take time... I think that the wife summed it up pretty good the other day... it kinda like dating, in high school ( but with out the jealousy), you meet someone and everything clicks and you can wait until you see them again. That about what it feels like.
The wife and I just celebrated our 8 years of marriage yesterday, and we are closer now than we have ever been and we found out how much we are still in love with each other.
We believe that this was one of the best choices that we have ever made together, and we are hoping that this turns out to be a very long lasting freindship with the other couple.
By the way, snd this is a mutual thought... us and them... we are no longer looking for anyone to play. Thats how well everything is going....
CJ
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