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graygo98 · 02-13-2007, 03:23 PM

I agree with ANGDKY. If prostitution were legalized a new sort of bar/club venue would likely spring up to cater to people looking for true no strings sex in a non-threatening environment. But it wouldn't be a swing club, more like those "hostess bars" you see on the continent.

While there may be people that might hire a "date" so that they can be a part of the "swinging scene" I see the two communities -- swingers and guys who buy sex -- as being two different worlds. And why would a working girl go a club to ply her trade? I can't imagine she would have many (any?) takers. Better to hang out in the bar of a convention hotel.

A gifted Canadian journalist (Geroge Jonas) once wrote that prostitution wasn't about selling sex, but rather selling the "illusion of affection." In days gone by I went to my share of strip clubs and that sure seemed to be what the regulars were paying for. They would bring little gifts and remember birthdays , she would ask how his problem with his boss or wife was going... as the mark forked over $20 a song for a lap dances. I am sure that is also the motivation behind the GFE.

How many true lifestylers hunger for the "illusion of affection"? Most that we have met already are in exceptionally close and affectionate relationships. At least, the ones we seem to be most attracted to are.

02-13-2007, 03:23 PM	#6 (permalink)
graygo98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 395 Location: Toronto Status: Couple	Re: GFE - Prostitution In The Lifestyle, Part II I agree with ANGDKY. If prostitution were legalized a new sort of bar/club venue would likely spring up to cater to people looking for true no strings sex in a non-threatening environment. But it wouldn't be a swing club, more like those "hostess bars" you see on the continent. While there may be people that might hire a "date" so that they can be a part of the "swinging scene" I see the two communities -- swingers and guys who buy sex -- as being two different worlds. And why would a working girl go a club to ply her trade? I can't imagine she would have many (any?) takers. Better to hang out in the bar of a convention hotel. A gifted Canadian journalist (Geroge Jonas) once wrote that prostitution wasn't about selling sex, but rather selling the "illusion of affection." In days gone by I went to my share of strip clubs and that sure seemed to be what the regulars were paying for. They would bring little gifts and remember birthdays , she would ask how his problem with his boss or wife was going... as the mark forked over $20 a song for a lap dances. I am sure that is also the motivation behind the GFE. How many true lifestylers hunger for the "illusion of affection"? Most that we have met already are in exceptionally close and affectionate relationships. At least, the ones we seem to be most attracted to are.
	Last edited by graygo98; 02-13-2007 at 03:25 PM.