[twohots4u2]

We are on this board to try to learn more about the swinging lifestyle but we are on AFF to meet people. However, we have had the best consistent luck at the on-premises swing clubs we have attended. We have chronicled our journey into swinging in four true stories in the AFF Magazine. Our profile name there is the same as here.

We looked at your AFF profile and have some suggestions:

a. We would recommend that you borrow a good digital camera and take some attractive, well lighted photos. While you are at it suggest that you put the public photos in your profile and then put some real nice, sexual photos that clearly show both of you together, faces included, in an album. Then you can invite only those who past your first level of review to join your network and view your more private album photos.

b. Better yet, get a guy, gal, or couple who really knows how to use a digital camera join you as a photographer only and take lots of good photos of both of you while you play.

c. The bit about the twin beds tied together sounded like you were still in high school, not sexy at all to us.

d. If you want to only play with people in a particular age bracket, say so in your description of Ideal Person, eg.: "Only interested in people in the 20-35 age range only."

OK, we are a bit older, but we have played with couples who were younger and who were older than us. Once we realized that everyone has his or her talents, we had a great time. In fact, one of our favorite times was with a couple where the guy was much older than me. She liked the way he was so easy, gentle, really knew how to please a woman, and tried to please her in every way he could. He did not pound away at her like so many younger guys all want to.

We liked the comment, -Female half of Team: "He's learned to listen to me in this regard." I too have learned to listen to my female partner. Her instincts about people are much more highly tuned than mine.

Good luck