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Originally Posted by AreU4Us2Nite Maybe I've hit my "peek". Is that "peek" thing even real?
Any comments would be greatly appreciated.
~Dawn |
Dr. Pepper Schwartz: "Today, most researchers believe that a woman's "peak" could occur at any time, depending on her life experiences. Some women will relish the hot and heavy sex of their 20s, while others will find that their libidos are most active during their 40s!" full article:
http://www.lifetimetv.com/reallife/r...t/sh_peak.html
Dr. Sandor Gardos: "Because of societal messages, women often take longer to feel comfortable with sexuality or learn about their bodies. Many women don't learn how to have an orgasm until later in life."
Dr. Sandor Gardos: "Of course, there is a tremendous range in the age at which people feel that they are at their sexual peak. I think that reducing it to the ability to have orgasms easily is a poor definition. I have yet to meet a man or woman in their teens who can compare to an older man or woman in terms of sexual skills or sophistication!"
http://www.mypleasure.com/education/...estions/49.asp
Me: I reached a definite peak in sexuality (sort of a big thrust forward rather than a
peak, per se), at the age of 38. I think that a very big part of it for many women is getting past having small children. There is also the maturity that comes - like Dr. Gardos said, skills and sexual sophistication. In our 30's, we often feel freedom from being so concerned with what our parents wanted us to be (and society in general) - "good girls" - and we gain a feeling that this is a time for ourselves.
I had my first vaginal-only (no clitoral stimulation) orgasm at the age of 40.
By 44, they became my
best, most powerful orgasms. I've become more and more multi-orgasmic with time. I come more easily and more quickly. It seems that with age, I've become increasingly sexual, sensual and in tune with my body. The sex just keeps getting better and better, and I'm more "hungry" for it than when I was young.
"Peak" means that you've reached the summit, and it's going to be downhill after that. I don't think I've reached that point yet.
