I don't know that I can say I reached a "peak" in my life where things changed. I became sexually alive, aware and basically thought and think about it 24/7 since I met Spoo. I had been in a 20 year sexually dead marriage so would I have "peaked" at a younger age
maybe...maybe not.
When I met Spoo our relationship and connection gave me the freedom to be who I was and that included exploring my sexuality. I remember being in my counselor's office and holding up a book on his recommended reading shelf, after I had started dating Spoo, (which btw I didn't need to see my counselor any more after that
) called "the gift of sex" and said "Oh, yes it is"
I think I made him blush a little
So do women reach a point in their life where they become more sexually aware of themselves and the many pleasures of sex
I think they do or can but also think that you won't without a trigger. For me it was years of a bad marriage and religeous upbringing that doesn't want even married couples to enjoy sex. I think it's reaching a point in your life where you are mature (mentally and emotionally not necessarily age) and become confident in who you are as a woman. Maybe it is the kids being grown and you can start thinking about how fun it was before marriage and kids and the rat race of life to think about sex all day instead of packing lunches and braiding hair.
Whatever it is and whenever it comes I say sit back and enjoy the ride. For me I know I have and plan to until I take my last breathe
I don't believe you ever get too old. If more people believed that getting older is really a good thing and can be the best time of your life in many ways then they wouldn't dread the big 3-0, 4-0, 5-0; they'd look forward to it and celebrate it in the "extreme sport" way.
Mrs Spoomonkey