Well after reading the posts it has been an eye opener! We have made the decision to drop him as we don't associate with liars and cheats in other parts of our lifes unless we have to. This we do not, we like the fun and excitment but it must be honest and hassle free for the most part. Besides his wife might be an astronaut..... sorry I just had to put that in before Letterman or Leno make their first crack at love triangle in the news with NASA...
Thanks again all