 Re: Married man??
Well said Intuition. We agree with EVERYTHING. Like you, for us, cheating and lying is a big fat no-no, hence the fact that we swing open and honestly. It has nothing to do with which peak of the "morality mountain" anyone likes to sit on. Early on in our marraige, cheating did happen. We know the hurt and pain that ALWAYS accompanies it, so we too stay far away from it. But its just like you said Intuition, if they will lie to the spouse about thier actions, then they are very capable of lying to us about STD's and anything else. Not to mention the drama that can ensue when the wife finds out. And make no mistake, the spouse always finds out, or has enough of a suspicion they go digging.
However, to the OP, Julie is right. You have to ask yourself what you are comfortable with. Some swingers find it okay to be with married people. Others don't. Each do so for their own reasons. You have to search your own concience and decide for yourself what you are okay with. What we do is our choice, just like what you do will be your choice. Best of luck to you.
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