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Originally Posted by spectraschain My, the view must be wonderful atop the moral highground...
We are pretty sure we surrendered that lofty peak many moons ago.... |
OMG, here we go. "Morality Police" and all that shit. :rollseyes Call me what you like, we "ROSE ABOVE" the drama and bullshit of cheating when we took up swinging. And now, think of me how you will, we DO look down on it. Swinging and cheating are polar opposites...in my opinion. I realize I can't change anyone else's minds about that, as I said. All I can do is state my position on the matter. I personally feel morally compromised by playing with a cheater. So, as a matter of respecting myself, my husband, and everything we've worked to acheive, we wouldn't do it. And we have always done what we could to ensure that we weren't suckered into it, either. After all, if a cheater isn't above lying to his/her spouse, what makes us think he/she has any problem lying to us about important things...like...oh...STDs for example? A cheater is a liar. We can't respect that. We can't have fun with people we can't respect. End of freakin' story.