[stanlane]

We have had 2 FMF experiences in the last 16 months and both were unplanned. The first started as a massage for the Mrs. during her b'day party that turned into a mutual acquaintance going down on her, them both going down on me and some mutual clitoral stimulation between the 2 of them (also intercourse btwn me and the mrs.).

The 2nd experience was with a friend of the mrs. (and co-worker of mine) after a fairly wild pool party we threw for a visiting friend. after a few people left, we started skinny dipping, a little groping in the pool, body shots in the kitchen and finally a shower. When I came out of the shower, her friend was in the bed, but they weren't doing anything. When I got in, i realized the friend was naked. This turned into an all out 3some in which mrs. performed cunnilingus for the first time, i entered wife from behing while they were in 69 and mrs. and i performed oral on her together. that was a truly great sexual experience, but mrs. has decided that--as others have said--she's "just not wired for that" so i haven't brouth it up since (that was about 8 months ago). mrs. also told me that her friend wanted to spend the night b/c too much too drink. Mrs. said ok. Friend said she sleeps nude and hoped i wouldn't mind (needless to say, i didn't).

didn't mean to be so long, but really wanted to say you don't have to go looking for it. if it's something you BOTH want, it will happen and you shouldn't try to force it.