[Spoomonkey]

I think it is semantics - and I am not a fan of splitting hairs with words. If you say to someone you are "ethically non-monogamous" they will say "you do what with a mongoose?" Tell them you are a "swinger" and they understand as much as they really need to.

My choice? Don't tell them anything. People at swing clubs don't care what you call it and people who aren't swingers don't need to know what you do with your spare time.

As long as we (as a couple) get to enjoy the freedoms of sexual expression and the excitement of realizing fantasies, we can call it whatever... If we called it "tater totting" and it meant the same - I'd be cool with that...

Spoomonkey