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Old 02-01-2007, 07:14 AM   #9 (permalink)
NCcuriouscpl
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Join Date: Jun 2006
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Location: Concord, NC
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Default Re: Ages

[QUOTE=Tybee Swing]


Also, my daughter and stepkids may be emotionally mature, but I still would not feel comfortable having sex with someone that is their own age. You would remind me of them, inevitably....and I'd feel creepy.


I think there's a huge difference between meeting people face-to-face initially (like in a club) vs. meeting through profiles. I doubt you'd even click on our profile when you saw the age, and we wouldn't click on yours. But, if we met in a club and without knowing ages, you appeared to be a 28-34 age range couple, we appeared to you to be a early/mid-30's couple, and if we all were attracted to each other, had a personality connection and a good, sexy vibe, it could happen. I think that there's a lot more scrutiny in the details when meeting through profiles.


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Tybee, I thought so too until we actually met a couple at a club in their early 30's. They were mature, we had a great time shooting pool and dancing....and then ended up 'playing' later that evening!

The female was 30, but I did not see her as that age. My daughter is 33, and I had always thought I couldn't 'play' with someone in her age group. The male, although he wasn't attractive to me at first (no I would never have chosen their profile!) my opinion changed as I got to know his personality. My husband agreed that he too had reservations at first; after all, would that be like 'doing' your daughter?

So.....you never know how things will end up. Don't discount someone for their age and/or looks, you MAY enjoy their company....and things could transition into something else!

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