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ohash01 · 01-31-2007, 05:41 PM

As J. approaches the big 3-0, I am considering upping our "preferred age range" in our profiles. Right now, it's set at 35 being the upper guideline. But once, he's 30, would a 40 year old woman seem that much older? Let's say he wants to be with an "older woman", and we find a great couple or single who have the same desires we have..

So here are my questions: Do you think most middle-aged persons would look at a 23 year old and go "ick...youngin'."? Does age really matter as much as emotional maturity? What if - said 23 year old - could easily pass for 28 or so? What qualities do you need to see in a person to consider swinging out of your preferred age range?

This is by no means a serious issue, but I'm interested in your ideas and opinions. I know there have been posts that lean towards age-arguments before, and I'm not looking for another one of those. I'm just looking for opinions.

01-31-2007, 05:41 PM	#1 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Age differences among swing playmates As J. approaches the big 3-0, I am considering upping our "preferred age range" in our profiles. Right now, it's set at 35 being the upper guideline. But once, he's 30, would a 40 year old woman seem that much older? Let's say he wants to be with an "older woman", and we find a great couple or single who have the same desires we have.. So here are my questions: Do you think most middle-aged persons would look at a 23 year old and go "ick...youngin'."? Does age really matter as much as emotional maturity? What if - said 23 year old - could easily pass for 28 or so? What qualities do you need to see in a person to consider swinging out of your preferred age range? This is by no means a serious issue, but I'm interested in your ideas and opinions. I know there have been posts that lean towards age-arguments before, and I'm not looking for another one of those. I'm just looking for opinions.