MrsVan

Well everyone, we have an update to this thread and thought we would share it with you all. After the emails that MrVan sent to the wife, they contacted us last week and wanted us to come over to their house. We IM'd alot during the week prior and seemed excited about it.

We showed up at their house and just hung out listening to music and having some drinks. Then as the evening progressed we headed to the bedroom. Things seemed to be going really well (again they are a soft swap couple) MrVan went down on her and her husband attempted to go down on me but then us couples wound up with our SO. While MrVan and I were in a 69 position and the other couple was playing all of the sudden the husband said that they needed to stop as she was crying. She would not tell us what was wrong or if we did something to upset her. So we got dressed and felt it was best for us to leave.

Here is where my frustration comes in.....We went out to the living room to get our stuff together and the husband followed to blow out the candles throughout the house. We proceeded to the door with our things while talking to him and MrVan unlocked the door. We turn around and the husband disappeared, the wife remained in the bedroom not saying goodbye. We basically let ourselves out of their home and neither of them said goodbye. I felt this to be very rude and at this point I am done with this couple.

MrVan and I both feel there is too much drama there with them and that it seems that the husband wants to be in the lifestyle but maybe the wife really doesn't want to be.

We have not heard anything back from this couple no email and they have not been on IM so I think they are done as well which at this point does not bother me in the least. I do not like dealing with rude people and I guess we found out their true colors.

MrsVan