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Originally Posted by iapr Yep this is the key here. Women are the picky and choosey ones so it is they that need to be catered to. |
A common misconception that I sometimes actually wish were true, while both my wife and I are pickier than most, I am far more picky than she is. Or as one of my good lifestyle friends likes to say, "Mr. GT has an extremely narrow strike zone".
That being said, I have to say that the question of whether one is too picky is really a moot one. The reason for that is that it is something you can't change, we all have our own tastes in what we find attractive or not in others, I have yet to find a way to change that. It is simply the way we are wired individually, in my opinion. In our case, we have come to accept this, we don't hook up with others as often as most swingers, but we have found that when we do hook up with a couple now, it is much better than when we often compromised our own limitations by hooking up with people that we didn't really find all that sexually inspiring.