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Originally Posted by aahours1 I have messed up a few times, by allowing my HORMONES to take over and pick the couple. It was NOT GOOD. I heard it all the way home...LOL...What I finally done, was allow my wife to chose and pick the ones she would be interested in. It has never failed that she pick the correct couple for us BOTH. See the women pick with their eye sight, heart and mind. We as men pick with the head of our dicks. So leave it up to the ladies. They know best....and they know us as men. |
Yep this is the key here. Women are the picky and choosey ones so it is they that need to be catered to. Try this, when you go to the club keep your eyes on your own lady and off the other chicks. Stay together as a couple and approach and introduce yourselves to couples and try to get her engaged in conversations with the other male as well as the other female. Don't point out any hot chicks and don't try and sway her selection process based on which females you find attractive. Eventually she will find a guy that trips her trigger and when that happens then try to engage them as a couple.
Keep this in mind as well, of the other couple it will also be that female that will be the picky one so while he is schmoozing your wife you will need to be charming and flirting with the other woman to get her interested in you as well.
Yes it is complex and at times quite difficult but if you concentrate on making your wife comfortable and let her pick out the couples you will over time be more successfull than if you point out hot chicks and hope the she gets it gear on her own with whatever guy happens to be tagging along with the chick. This is a female sport and if you accept that and play by your wifes rules you will reap the benifits.