 Re: Too Picky?
You said most of the swapping you've done has been with people you've known for a while, it sounds like maybe your wife prefers to get to know people. Guys are typically more easily able to just have sex with a woman they don't know based solely on looks, women typically need a little more of a connection. Ask any woman and she'll tell you at least 3 examples of someone she may not have thought was good looking when she met them but after getting to know them that changed.
Maybe when you go to the club you should focus less on finding someone to swap with and more on just meeting people. Take the pressure off and get to know some people, you might find that she's much more willing when you aren't trying to get her to just jump in the sack with a perfect stranger.
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