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keysync · 01-23-2007, 09:22 AM

We've been to a club near here many times over the past year.
My wife and I agreed that neither one of us would "Take one for the team" so to speak.
The thing is we're interested in swapping and have done so at home or others homes which were people we've known for a long time.
But every time we go to the club It seems either I'll find a girl I'm interested in and the wife's not interested in her partner or vise versa.
Is this a common thing to be so picky?
One evening we went to the club and it was packed. Hot women everywhere. I was constantly tapping on the wifes shoulder. "Hey over there", Hey what about them"
Finally at the end of the night she told me that there was alot of pretty girls but their husbands/boyfriends just didn't do anything for her.
In hindsight I wonder if I'm ready and she's still a little reserved on this since we have never done the spur of the moment thing at a club.
I guess I'll have to ask her tonight.

01-23-2007, 09:22 AM	#1 (permalink)
keysync Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 38 Location: Indiana Status: Couple	Too Picky? Can't find couples at clubs that interest us both We've been to a club near here many times over the past year. My wife and I agreed that neither one of us would "Take one for the team" so to speak. The thing is we're interested in swapping and have done so at home or others homes which were people we've known for a long time. But every time we go to the club It seems either I'll find a girl I'm interested in and the wife's not interested in her partner or vise versa. Is this a common thing to be so picky? One evening we went to the club and it was packed. Hot women everywhere. I was constantly tapping on the wifes shoulder. "Hey over there", Hey what about them" Finally at the end of the night she told me that there was alot of pretty girls but their husbands/boyfriends just didn't do anything for her. In hindsight I wonder if I'm ready and she's still a little reserved on this since we have never done the spur of the moment thing at a club. I guess I'll have to ask her tonight.