The Swingers Board - View Single Post - She crossed our limitation of soft-swinging and had intercourse

graygo98 · 01-23-2007, 09:10 AM

Stepping back from the OP's situation for a minute, there is a lot of good learning in this thread. I think danni654 summed it up best for me in post #32, particularly points 1 & 4.

As to soft swing, in all its apparently infinite permutations and combinations of "do's" and "don'ts", it should probably be reserved for foursome situations where all the parties have hashed out all the rules and agreed to them. Even then it seems to have a high potential drama quotient. With its arbitrary and artificial limits on basic human sexuality it doesn't seem like a very good fit for a club environment.

01-23-2007, 09:10 AM	#37 (permalink)
graygo98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 381 Location: Toronto Status: Couple	Re: Too Much Happenned Stepping back from the OP's situation for a minute, there is a lot of good learning in this thread. I think danni654 summed it up best for me in post #32, particularly points 1 & 4. As to soft swing, in all its apparently infinite permutations and combinations of "do's" and "don'ts", it should probably be reserved for foursome situations where all the parties have hashed out all the rules and agreed to them. Even then it seems to have a high potential drama quotient. With its arbitrary and artificial limits on basic human sexuality it doesn't seem like a very good fit for a club environment.