I guess we fall into the first category most of the time. We are part of a group of several couples who have been swinging together for many years. We all have a professional and middle class background and know each other very well.We enjoy each other's company and friendship no matter what the circumstances. For example if we have a cocktail party our guest list will often include a mixture of our swinging and non-swinging friends. Clearly there is no sexual aspect to these parties. We have found over the years that swinging is a more complete experience when the participants have more in common than just an interest in swapping partners. On many occasions we have had a good conversation around the dinner table, paired off for the first fuck of the evening and then resumed the conversation while we rested up for the second round. Having said all that we do enjoy swinging with people we do not know all that well. That is one of the reasons why we have maintained our membership in a swing club and why we try to vacation at places like Key West where we can be assured that there will be some action. But swinging with our friends is our preferred choice.
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