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Originally Posted by Mr.T What would you think.
We have been conversing with a local couple for a while now.Phone,coffee meets and MSN.All was going great and everyone was interested.We even had a possible playdate planned for this weekend.But this past week things seemed to have gone flipside.No online chats,phone convesations last about 15 seconds.Usually"we're busy right now" is the main topic.And that's when we call them.They don't call us anymore.
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This is exactly why we will only meet "new peeps" either new to us or new to swinging, at a event be it a bar meet, a house party or one of our monthly events. The only time we will meet other wise is if we are planning on going out anyways. This also holds true to the endless stream of e-mails and im's, for us its "hey we saw your profile and we think that etc...." from either them or us and then its time to send along a few pics and if everyone is still in agreement lets meet for drinks/dinner. If at this point they get wishy washy then we chalk it up as another meet that ain't gonna happen, we let them know that they know where to find us if they change their mind and off we go to meet someone who is ready to......
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