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Originally Posted by prettylady Wouldn't you be the horses ass if you dismissed this situation as her being less then receptive and it turns out that... |
Let me finish what prettylady said a different way. That ... "she has always considered you to be a big problem with her enjoying sex." Where I come from we learned that there's two sides to every story, so I refuse to take your word for it. I'm sorry but that's the way I am. I'd prefer hearing her side first.
Like others have already told you, what you are trying to do is not swinging and I don't consider you joining this lifestyle. You are joining a different list but not this one. This is one you enter
with your partner not without them.
Go talk to your wife and seek help, together. She can't do it without you and you shouldn't insist that she seek it alone.