I am going to try and be nice because I beleive the OP to be sincere.
She has gone through menopause? Well dude, that sucks right there. Estogen levels have dropped. I am not doctor, or very good speller even. But I know full well that some women have serious problems with sex drive after menopause.
My expert opinion :rollseyes is to talk openly with her. See if things are as bad for her as they are for you. perhaps ask if she would be willing to see a doctor to see if there is a hormone theropy she can try.
After menopause, and I am not speaking from direct experience, woman suffer huge with self esteem issues, depression, anxiety, and a whole gauntlet of really crappy things.
Wouldn't you be the horses ass if you dismissed this situation as her being less then receptive and it turns out that hormones or even councelling could help her out of what could very well be a difficult time in her life.
I really hope for the best for your wife.
Sorry, I really am, but I have little sympathy for you.
After I had two kids back to back my sex drive was down. my son was only 13 months old when my daughter was born. My ex, rather then helping me through this treated me like shit and then had an affair.
After getting out of that marriage, I got councelling and figured out that I was depressed. I met with my doctor after several sessions I learnt some really great life skills, and found out that I had ADD. Treating my depression and ADD, put together with getting away from an ass that thinks more about getting his dick wet then helping the "women he loves" get better, I met a really great guy (Dog) and now my sex drive is over the top.
Once again I feel beautiful and I like it.
Sorry I tried to be nice, but I failed in there somewhere.
As for the post about the women on this board being sexually free. (not exact words). I know that was ment as a compliment. But many of us went through hell to get to were we are now.
Your friend,
Prettylady
