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Originally Posted by iapr Yup, what avid said. I'll put it this way, when someone wants to play with you they are calling you/emailing you/Iming you making arraingements to meet and get naked. Anything less than that, it ain't happening.
Everyone is busy and every has other facets of their lives. Whe people want to play they get together and play. If they tell you something came up and they are busy and they offer alternate times and locations then maybe they are still interested and you may stand a chance. If they just say they are busy then that is their way of saying they have either gotten cold feet and chickened out or have just plain changed their minds.
Don't take it too personal it happens all the time and the day will come you will be interested one moment and reconsider the next, it happens to all of us.
The important thing is don't burn any bridges and don't close any doors. the day may come you run into them again sometime that spark may be rekindled and that time they may follow through. |
I wish more of us "swingers" were more into being polite human beings, but that must be too much to ask in this day and age. Regardless of the times in which we live, there is nothing to be gained from pursuing these people. Just look for others that meet your criteria. It's maddening and frustrating and doesn't give you the best feeling for the human race but that is the way it is.
I do agree to not burn any bridges, but if a couple is interested they would follow through. Sometimes you find that not all parties know about the situation, and when dates get discussed the other SO is informed sometimes people will just disappear. You wouldn't want to be with someone that wasn't really into what was going to happen, no matter what they LOOK like. Count your blessings and move on.
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