 Re: Did we get blown off?
Yup, what avid said. I'll put it this way, when someone wants to play with you they are calling you/emailing you/Iming you making arraingements to meet and get naked. Anything less than that, it ain't happening.
Everyone is busy and every has other facets of their lives. Whe people want to play they get together and play. If they tell you something came up and they are busy and they offer alternate times and locations then maybe they are still interested and you may stand a chance. If they just say they are busy then that is their way of saying they have either gotten cold feet and chickened out or have just plain changed their minds.
Don't take it too personal it happens all the time and the day will come you will be interested one moment and reconsider the next, it happens to all of us.
The important thing is don't burn any bridges and don't close any doors. the day may come you run into them again sometime that spark may be rekindled and that time they may follow through. |