I'd say that we are both, depending on the people and the situation.
We usually do prefer to get to know couples that we play with outside the bedroom as well as inside as it just leads to more fun in general. You can hang out with these friends and discuss things you wouldn't be able to discuss with your "regular" friends, and at the end of the day after all that talk when you are 4 feeling randy you can head to the bedroom and have some great sex.
There are occasions tho, and I would say this occurs most often with single males for us (and probably mostly when I'm playing alone) that I just like to get it on. In those cases I will usually pick up a guy and play. The whether or not we become friends from that time I really leave in their ballpark. In some cases I have ended up with some great male friends that I/we were able to hang out with and have some great 3somes or 2somes with. Other times, they never called and I didn't worry about it.
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