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Originally Posted by midnightplayer When we do, it is after 10pm, in the dark, no oral, she is done in 15 min, me on top and I am bored. She will not talk about it, seek medical help, or take any effort to make it better. |
Personally I think asking advice of the women on this board is a like asking a cat what it's like to be a dog, they don't have a clue.
The women on this board are highly sexual, self aware and open minded.
Women like your wife, and mine are barely self aware, think sex every week is a lot and are open to any idea that they've seen on Leave it to Beaver.
My wife is barely tolerable, he has her good points but sex isn't one of them.
Any discussion about sex start out with her saying No. I have to convince her to sleep with me and it's a lot of work with a lot fo rejection. Even when she does give in there are many conditions.I have to ask specifically for each different position or style which are all greated with resent.
She enjoys playing the martyr and like to pretend the doesn't enjoy sex even when she does.
I mention the above not for sympathy but to point out that I understand the OPs position...
What I would do is make it perfectly clear what is expected of her and what wil happen if she continues with her behavior. I would start with the threat of divorce and bargian down from there.
(flame suit on )