The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Breaking the news to Wife that I intend to swing without her

ohash01 · 01-12-2007, 11:43 PM

Oh I see nothing good coming from this. Honestly - what women who wasn't sexually interested would go "SURE HONEY! Go have fun!!" I know that if my sex drive had suddenly magically disappered, I'd be pissed at the world, and if I'm not cumming, neither are you sugar. But that could just be me, being evil.

What you are planning is not swinging, it is cheating, UNLESS for some strange reason that I cant understand, she gives you the 100% okay to play alone...but I see you bringing this subject up and the divorce papers waiting on the kitchen table the next day.

Oh - and you still think this is a great idea - I'd suggest finding a way to do it so that it doesn't sound like an ultimatum. But only a very brave and/or stupid man would cite the reasons you have list above word for word.

01-12-2007, 11:43 PM	#10 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: Breaking the news to Wife Oh I see nothing good coming from this. Honestly - what women who wasn't sexually interested would go "SURE HONEY! Go have fun!!" I know that if my sex drive had suddenly magically disappered, I'd be pissed at the world, and if I'm not cumming, neither are you sugar. But that could just be me, being evil. What you are planning is not swinging, it is cheating, UNLESS for some strange reason that I cant understand, she gives you the 100% okay to play alone...but I see you bringing this subject up and the divorce papers waiting on the kitchen table the next day. Oh - and you still think this is a great idea - I'd suggest finding a way to do it so that it doesn't sound like an ultimatum. But only a very brave and/or stupid man would cite the reasons you have list above word for word.