The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Breaking the news to Wife that I intend to swing without her

getnit2gethr · 01-12-2007, 10:17 AM

I think it's a good thing that you want to tell her how you feel. It really isn't swinging if it's cheating so she will need to be onboard with you. Your idea isn't rediculous either. I have spoken with a couple of ladies in the lifestyle who swing with an older married man. I guess his wife has some kind of problem and is supportive of it. Not unlike you. You've spent 30 years with her. You should know better than anyone how best to talk about it. Has this subject ever come up before? How do you think she will react?

01-12-2007, 10:17 AM	#4 (permalink)
getnit2gethr Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 133 Location: Toledo, OH Status: M. Male Swing Lifestyle Name:GettinIt2gether	Re: Breaking the news to Wife I think it's a good thing that you want to tell her how you feel. It really isn't swinging if it's cheating so she will need to be onboard with you. Your idea isn't rediculous either. I have spoken with a couple of ladies in the lifestyle who swing with an older married man. I guess his wife has some kind of problem and is supportive of it. Not unlike you. You've spent 30 years with her. You should know better than anyone how best to talk about it. Has this subject ever come up before? How do you think she will react?
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