The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Friends as Swingers versus Sex Only Swingers

Quin · 07-02-2002, 12:14 AM

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Originally posted by L & D:
One thing I have noticed in our short but very sweet exploration of the lifestyle is that there appear to be two kinds of swingers. Some people, lets call them "Category 1", think friendship with their partners is important and in the extreme value the friendship over the sex. "Category 2" people want to keep sex and friendship separate. I believe we are falling into "Category 2". We are beginning to prefer that our partners don't know too much about us. This has been an evolution. We started out "Category 1". How do you feel?

Personally, I like both categories. I have made some very great friends thru swinging and I value their friendship and them immensely. But then again, sometimes I don't want the person/couple to know much about me and have no desire to befriend them...this is when I go to the club.

My friendships with my swinger friends are just as my friendships are with my friends who don't swing, just that we include sex. We go shopping, some go on vacations together, we talk about our kids, jobs, homes, exchange recipes, heck one swinger friend even gave a Tupperware party and another a Mary Kay party. Two swinging friend couples I am extremely close to and I wouldn't trade their friendship for anonymous sex with anyone on anyday!

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Quin

07-02-2002, 12:14 AM	#2 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	quote: Originally posted by L & D: One thing I have noticed in our short but very sweet exploration of the lifestyle is that there appear to be two kinds of swingers. Some people, lets call them "Category 1", think friendship with their partners is important and in the extreme value the friendship over the sex. "Category 2" people want to keep sex and friendship separate. I believe we are falling into "Category 2". We are beginning to prefer that our partners don't know too much about us. This has been an evolution. We started out "Category 1". How do you feel? Personally, I like both categories. I have made some very great friends thru swinging and I value their friendship and them immensely. But then again, sometimes I don't want the person/couple to know much about me and have no desire to befriend them...this is when I go to the club. My friendships with my swinger friends are just as my friendships are with my friends who don't swing, just that we include sex. We go shopping, some go on vacations together, we talk about our kids, jobs, homes, exchange recipes, heck one swinger friend even gave a Tupperware party and another a Mary Kay party. Two swinging friend couples I am extremely close to and I wouldn't trade their friendship for anonymous sex with anyone on anyday! VOTE FOR JULIE!! Quin
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