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havefuninsun · 01-10-2007, 02:08 PM

I don't think it would be "poly" but more of a trust thing. I think of poly relationships as those who are in love with each other. I'd like to be friends with who we play with, but I certainly don't want to be in love with anyone else and have all that to deal with. I'm VERY happy being VERY emotionally committed to one person.

The "circle of friends" to me would provide a safe group to play with, a level of respect from all participating members, the ability to do threesomes with members of the couples because of the trust factor, and frankly, give us time back from meeting new folks. Don't get me wrong -- I enjoy it. But it's very TIME consuming to update profiles, send emails, and spend hours chatting with folks to determine compatibility.

01-10-2007, 02:08 PM	#11 (permalink)
havefuninsun insert witty banter here Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,190 Location: Virginia Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:havefuninsun	Re: Light-Polyfidelity-Swinging??? I don't think it would be "poly" but more of a trust thing. I think of poly relationships as those who are in love with each other. I'd like to be friends with who we play with, but I certainly don't want to be in love with anyone else and have all that to deal with. I'm VERY happy being VERY emotionally committed to one person. The "circle of friends" to me would provide a safe group to play with, a level of respect from all participating members, the ability to do threesomes with members of the couples because of the trust factor, and frankly, give us time back from meeting new folks. Don't get me wrong -- I enjoy it. But it's very TIME consuming to update profiles, send emails, and spend hours chatting with folks to determine compatibility.