Friends as Swingers versus Sex Only Swingers
One thing I have noticed in our short but very sweet exploration of the lifestyle is that there appear to be two kinds of swingers. Some people, lets call them "Category 1", think friendship with their partners is important and in the extreme value the friendship over the sex. "Category 2" people want to keep sex and friendship separate. I believe we are falling into "Category 2". We are beginning to prefer that our partners don't know too much about us. This has been an evolution. We started out "Category 1". How do you feel?
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