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ohash01 · 01-09-2007, 10:52 PM

I am of the female variety where the man can go for 45 minutes, but I'm just plain tough to get-off. I am the only person on the planet that can get me off EVERY time. I'm prepared to frustrate many men in the swinging world. It's just my policy to let them know that I'm just a tough case.

I think it's less the quantity and more the quality. If your hubby can concentrate on pleasuring the women for a while in other ways first, ie - hands, mouth, toys, whatever the woman likes, then after she has had a bit of fun he no longer has to worry about it. I think that freaking out does cause a lot of problems. You get all psyched up and then you just can't hold out. Convince him to relax. Bring up the fact that you have played with some of these couples multiple times...they wouldn't be coming back if it was horrible.

01-09-2007, 10:52 PM	#6 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: Husband Concerned About Disappointing The Ladies I am of the female variety where the man can go for 45 minutes, but I'm just plain tough to get-off. I am the only person on the planet that can get me off EVERY time. I'm prepared to frustrate many men in the swinging world. It's just my policy to let them know that I'm just a tough case. I think it's less the quantity and more the quality. If your hubby can concentrate on pleasuring the women for a while in other ways first, ie - hands, mouth, toys, whatever the woman likes, then after she has had a bit of fun he no longer has to worry about it. I think that freaking out does cause a lot of problems. You get all psyched up and then you just can't hold out. Convince him to relax. Bring up the fact that you have played with some of these couples multiple times...they wouldn't be coming back if it was horrible.