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aaaflirt · 01-09-2007, 10:46 PM

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Hey as you have very well mentioned in your question great sex is different for every body.
The way i find best to please our partners is to ask if they mind experimenting with different ideas, fantasies, etc. if they are open to that, then they probably wont mind what sort of performance they get cos it was suposedly new to both of us.
If all else fails tell them what you like/dont like and if they are in theyr in, if not there was nothing lost. (sounds like an echo of the last person) Talking about sex to a person in this instance shouldnt be to dificult, after all your about to get way more intimate than verbal comunication.
This should be a no pressure thing, Im not a vibrator i dont have an on off switch, and i cant cum on command (yet).
I do believe Men can become "multi-orgasmic" and i am learning the technique. The technique is in a book called "how to make love all night (and drive a woman wild) by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D. --i dont know where i got it from but i know it was from the net. Hey good luck and like I said "NO PRESSURE"

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aaaflirt Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 14 Location: Brisbnane	Re: Husband Concerned About Disappointing The Ladies lol to blood penis thinking coment Hey as you have very well mentioned in your question great sex is different for every body. The way i find best to please our partners is to ask if they mind experimenting with different ideas, fantasies, etc. if they are open to that, then they probably wont mind what sort of performance they get cos it was suposedly new to both of us. If all else fails tell them what you like/dont like and if they are in theyr in, if not there was nothing lost. (sounds like an echo of the last person) Talking about sex to a person in this instance shouldnt be to dificult, after all your about to get way more intimate than verbal comunication. This should be a no pressure thing, Im not a vibrator i dont have an on off switch, and i cant cum on command (yet). I do believe Men can become "multi-orgasmic" and i am learning the technique. The technique is in a book called "how to make love all night (and drive a woman wild) by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D. --i dont know where i got it from but i know it was from the net. Hey good luck and like I said "NO PRESSURE"