[TheDeal]

This would be my ideal setup for experiencing the lifestyle thing. The funny part is, it's really almost natural when you think about it from the vanilla or single prospective. When my wife and I had our first experience, it was this couple that we had been chatting with for some time. The weekend after the first play session, the other couple was supposed to attend a swinger party, and my wife and I were like, hmmm ewww. It's not like we were emotionally possessive or anything. We just didn't like the idea of them being with who knows, then being with us the next weekend. You start thinking about STDs and who the other couple(s) they were gonna be with were with before them. My wife and I got into this for fantasy fulfillment, not variety, so a situation that would allow all to feel comfortable to have fun sounds good. The reason we thought multiple couples is due to the schedules of everyone. You might be able to get everyone together once every six months or so, but with so many there should always be at least two couples free at any given time. Or at least you increase the chances!