Well thanks for all the helpful tips. We actually didn't see them the following night. The guy isn't a bad guy, just has a very brash personality. I talked to him last night actually, and everything is seeming to be better. I did tell him that he needed to tone it down a bit though, cuz my girl was finding him a tad offensive. I also told him that if she felt offended, obviously he wouldn't be getting any
All in all, from what my overly perceptive and analytical self can see, things are going a lot better. Now for the other issue... :-)