[trinigemini]

I think you are very wrong to be upset. My Future Hubby and I have not swung as yet. Mainly because I am afraid of the situations like you just mentioned. Your husband trusted you to obey the rules and you broke them...you broke his trust....I also agree with the other post....you act like a baby with your candy taken away. Your husband is suppossed to be the most important part of any of your relationships.....I'm surprised he even lets you still hang out with the other couple....I know if it was me I would not have anything to do with them ever again....of course that because I have my own insecurity issues.....all I can say is think about it from his perspective...what if it was the other way around....would you have been fine with him eating out the wife upstairs while you waited in the car for him....trusting that he wouldnt do anything you didnt want him too....I'm not at the point in my relationship as yet where I can handle seeing my man fuck another woman.....I doubt I ever will be...