The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Broke the rules now he won't even let me flirt

Tia Vampire · 01-07-2007, 12:15 PM

yes, your hubby may be angry because you broke one of the rules, but believe me it is deeper than that. my fiance loves to have his penis sucked and for him he says it's better than sex. so depending on your skills, he probably did'nt want you to share those skills without him there. he wanted to see if the other guy loved what you do as much as he does. that is what my fiance said.for us girls, a blow job is just a tease or flirting. it is not as meaningful as having someone inside of you. so me, the female half knows it was nothing to have done what you did, but as far as your hubby's point of view, you guys should talk some more and let him know it really was nothing but a girl's way to flirt and nothing more. take care and the best of luck to you guys. i'm sure it's nothing you guys can't put behind you.

01-07-2007, 12:15 PM	#8 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,059 Location: Florida Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:tiavampire	Re: Am I wrong to be upset?? yes, your hubby may be angry because you broke one of the rules, but believe me it is deeper than that. my fiance loves to have his penis sucked and for him he says it's better than sex. so depending on your skills, he probably did'nt want you to share those skills without him there. he wanted to see if the other guy loved what you do as much as he does. that is what my fiance said.for us girls, a blow job is just a tease or flirting. it is not as meaningful as having someone inside of you. so me, the female half knows it was nothing to have done what you did, but as far as your hubby's point of view, you guys should talk some more and let him know it really was nothing but a girl's way to flirt and nothing more. take care and the best of luck to you guys. i'm sure it's nothing you guys can't put behind you.