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Here we go again.. blaming the offended instead of the offender and pass it off as his immaturity and insecurities. They were a soft swing couple. Jumping from soft swing to fucking someone without mutual consent is usually called cheating on this board. This would have been the end of our swinging around here. At least until trust was regained. Guess I need therapy of some kind.
If HE had fucked someone and it was the wife posting, I doubt anyone would have accused her of being insecure. Is he over reacting? I think so, but the guy IS allowed to be extremely pissed and hurt in my book.
So what then, if you call yourself a swinger anything goes? Unbelievable!
Very few people are as secure and emotionally perfect as some proclaim to be.