TNT hit most of the key issues, so I'll just second the motion and add my 2 cents.
It doesn't take long to find out if the single male is giver or a user. Nothing turns us off faster than a guy who begins a conversation by boasting about how many times he can make a woman orgasm or how many couples he has made happy.
We look for cleanliness first, a gentleman second, personality next, then patience and looks last. It's amazing how attractive a man can be to my wife if he is genuinely likeable and neat.
We do not rush into a relationship and if the single guy gets pushy or impatient he is eliminated immediately. We have known a playmate for as little as two weeks before inviting him home, but have also waited a couple of months before becoming comfortable. We look for friends, not a stud service.
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