The Swingers Board - View Single Post - She crossed our limitation of soft-swinging and had intercourse

bigjoehd · 01-04-2007, 10:56 PM

Here's my take on your situation,people put WAY TOO MUCH emphasis on rules & agreements & control instead of asking themselves what if?

These situations that all of us put ourselves in are not 100% controlable,things happen in the heat of the moment that cant be planned for,what happened had nothing to do with your wife's love for you it was about the sex which was why both of you got into the situation to start with,its why all of us do what we do isnt it?

I say you should learn from all of this & before you do anything else take a good look at the what if's?

01-04-2007, 10:56 PM	#15 (permalink)
bigjoehd Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 63 Location: michigan Status: married couple	Re: Too Much Happenned Here's my take on your situation,people put WAY TOO MUCH emphasis on rules & agreements & control instead of asking themselves what if? These situations that all of us put ourselves in are not 100% controlable,things happen in the heat of the moment that cant be planned for,what happened had nothing to do with your wife's love for you it was about the sex which was why both of you got into the situation to start with,its why all of us do what we do isnt it? I say you should learn from all of this & before you do anything else take a good look at the what if's?