First, I hate this. It seems like every post I put up is in "Situational Help"! Annoying to me when I think of this.
Anhwho, every since we started with other couples, things have gone relatively well. We have been very lucky in finding good, honest couples, and we all get along perfectly. A few have actually become very good friends of ours.
We recently met this one couple, and they are among the more attractive ones. Oh screw it, they are HOT. My girl is totally into the guy, and I can't hardly last with this girl. But last night... there were some strange issues. I felt as if we were in the middle of something going on. We were over for several hours, me and the guy were on the XBOX 360 (HELL YA!!), and my girl and his wife were off talking and playing online. Well, the two girls started making out and all, so we go into the bedroom. Yada yada yada, soon, everyone is naked, my girl is on top of the guy, and the girl is on top of me. They finish early, and walk out to clean up. The girl is still fucking me, but all of a sudden, seems to get really mad, jumps up off me, and starts to storm off. I think I have done something wrong, and ask, but she says that it wasn't me. My girl tells me a few minutes later that this guy has been basically not talking about anything else except wanting to "get it on" and such. That she really didn't want to drink or do anything last night. Which is fine with me, I have flat out said on nights I didn't want to do anything, even with them. And that if she had told me she didn't want to do anything, then no way in hell would I have.
Here is the thing: they want us to hang out tonight again. If and when something happens, how on Earth do I know if she is doing it because she wants to, and not because of the guy? And how do I convey to this guy that he basically needs to just chill the hell out and let whatever is going to happen, happen?
Any personal anecdotes or such?
