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Originally Posted by aahours1 I AGREE with "THE SWINGERSET". You need to talk it out fully with the wife. Then take a break from swinging.
I, as a club owner, know what goes on with having to much to drink ans swinging. It does cause trouble and problems later. You make poor judgements and someone eventually gets hurt.
Do as "THE SWINGERSET" said, talk it out and take a break for awhile. |
I'm afraid I have to disagree.
Sure time heals all wounds but I think avoiding swinging isn't the best answer, at least if the OP is anything like me. Something like this can fester and cause mental anguish for quite a long time. Taking a break from swinging is not going to make this go away, or make you feel better, its just going to be a time period where you hope you will forget. I know personally it would take a LONG time for this to just go away, and it would become a life long sore no matter how much time would pass to some extent.
Mind you I'm not saying go out and cheat, I'm not saying you should get revenge, but I am saying swinging and going in knowing you will full swap could help get over it quicker.