My, my, my! I was wondering how your date went. I can't believe you said huge, and I refuse to cater to it; how about pleasingly plump
. You sound just like my guy, really are all men a like?
Once we were setting something up with a couple, and all he kept saying was do you realize what she is gonna look like with her clothes off. Who cares. It is the person that matters. You need to talk to someone over the internet for months (years, LOL) and build a relationship without the looks, fall in love and then what they seem to be lacking in physical attractiveness to suit you will not matter as much.
And the head turning thing, wow! You could be asking for problems there. When I was younger and in my 17 year marriage (without sounding too full of myself), I would have to say I turned some heads, and I knew it. Most who turn heads do, and I was always looking at those who looked at me. Not a good basis for a relationship, let me tell you, I swear we were doomed from the beginning. Sure I like to still turn a head or 2, it makes me feel pretty, but I like myself at 38 a whole lot better than I did at 28. Head turners tend to be full of themselves (I think I was) and as they say "I've come a long way baby".
Besides that, before we decided on this lifestyle and at the beginning of our relationship which was about 5 years ago, a guy glanced twice at me (my guy's rule at the time, look once it's an accident, look twice and your gonna be sorry). Anyhow, this was while grocery shopping, and all of a sudden I heard this loud growl. It was my guy literally growling at the other guy! Jealously comes up a lot with head turners.
A&M