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Originally Posted by VanHlebar To answer a few questions. First MrsVan and the other lady have incredible chemistry and yes the other lady does reciprocate with MrsVan and quite a bit and quite well. 
This couple is a soft swap couple which we have all talked about after we all tried a full swap and it just didn't work as the other wife wasn't ready. We didn't have any issues with them after that encounter and we have talked with both the husband and wife a lot to make sure that they were ok afterwards.
The reason why I asked her if there was an issue between the two of us is that when all the clothes are on, there is great chemistry and alot of flirting with between us. All of us seem to get along just fine when we are all dressed, but once the clothes fall off, she changes into someone that seems to only want to receive unless it she is giving to MrsVan.
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From what you've said so far about the 'other wife'......it sounds like she has some 'issues' with playing with males other than her 'hubby' to me. Remember originally she 'wasn't ready'. Sounds like she still isn't 'ready'. She may never be 'ready'.
We have 'played' with a couple that my hubby has similar problems with the 'other wife'. She's fine with me, she's fine with her hubby or when we are all playing together.........but when it comes to 'two on two', things change. With her, it seems to be an 'attention' issue.....she doesn't like her husbands attention going to me, she wants it all. We've quit playing with this couple because there seem to be too many 'games' being played.
Of course you want to see what their reply is before you make a decision to move forward. But if it were me, I would suggest it regardless. The situation is causing problems for you personally, and it doesn't sound like you have done anything that could have caused it.
I like the FMF idea, and I think you should give it a try! After having a 'play time that wasn't productive' sometimes a boost to the ego is helpful!
Keep us posted on how it goes!!