[iapr]

I have not read any of the other posts so that I can keep my thoughts original but I am sure they have given you lots of good insight.

My thoughts are do not do this and do not let him talk you into it. You are no where near a point in your relationship where swinging is even an option. Swinging is not for everyone and even of the couples who are active swingers many if not darn near all were in traditional monogamous marriages for many years and built up a very high degree of trust and intimacy before they even came up with the idea of swinging.

You are not there and your statement of that you are not even sure if he loves you gives me reason to question if this is even the right guy for you to be dating let alone swinging with. I really think you need to do some serious self evaluation and as well as some hard indepth evaluation of your relationship and not give another moments thought as to swinging.

I can be wrong of course but I think if you two try to bring another person in to the mix it will blow up in your faces very fast and very badly. Show him the posts you made as well as the responses you have gotten and if he tells you that you and everyone else are full of crap then he is just looking out for himself and wanting to fuck other chicks with your permission and is not looking out for your feelings and your best interest and that is the most sure-fire recipe for disaster in swinging that there is.